Music is an essential part of helping us find our way through grief, love, and the act of remembering lost souls. The musical choices you choose can influence the atmosphere of the funeral and encourage a sense of peace and reflection among all those in attendance.
Here are the 10 best songs to play at a funeral, all chosen for their poignancy and relevance to those who are grieving.
There are songs to lift the spirits and ballads to cry to, these songs bring comfort and gratitude, which is why they are all perfect song choices when honoring the lives and legacies of those who have passed away.
‘Tears in Heaven’ – Eric Clapton
This song was written after Clapton’s four-year-old son Conor passed away and really captures the emotional part of losing someone – revealing raw emotions of sadness.
The lyrics ask if they will meet in heaven and reminisce about the sadness of losing such a loved one.
This song hits close to home, making it one of the stronger verses that appeals to many who have lost loved ones.
‘Hallelujah’ – Jeff Buckley
This cover by Buckley, with his incomparably deep, throaty voice, is one of the best known (it was originally written by Leonard Cohen).
The song addresses love, loss, and redemption both spiritually and secularly.
The emotional depth and beautiful melody make it a touching tribute to your loved one.
‘Somewhere over the rainbow’ – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole
This version is a ukulele mashup of “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” and “What a Wonderful World”.
It carries a message of hope and dreams, making the listener feel comfortable, even if just for a moment.
Perhaps the reason it is often chosen as a song to commemorate a lost loved one is because of its comforting and jubilant nature.
‘Amazing Grace’ – Various Artists
The words of an old hymn by John Newton are sung at funerals, where some spiritual hope can be found. They convey promise, redemptive power, and hope of salvation to comfort the brokenhearted.
“Amazing Grace” is a staple at many funerals because it stays true to its universal and timeless themes.
‘My Way’ – Frank Sinatra
“My Way” is a do-it-your-way song that celebrates a fulfilling life. The lyrics celebrate someone who is unique, has found his or her way in life or achieved great things and thus, pays homage to someone who has lived life to the fullest.
You probably won’t find a more memorable funeral song than this one with its timeless sound and powerful message.
‘Strength and Spirit’ – Bette Midler
“Force and Spirit” is a Thanksgiving song and is most famous for appearing in the movie “Beach”.
Sometimes it is dedicated to a deceased loved one who left a huge impact, and a heartfelt letter with emotional sincerity will make for a more touching tribute.
‘It’s time to say goodbye’ – Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
The song features an epic duet that stands out among the more popular songs used to say goodbye.
It captures the feeling of saying goodbye to a loved one with simple yet surprisingly effective lyrics and a beautifully melancholy melody. The song’s operatic style and emotional weight make it the perfect farewell.
‘You lift me up’ – Josh Groban
“You Raise Me Up” is a song expressing the spirit of solidarity, finding strength and mutual support. It is so uplifting that it is often used at funerals.
The lyrics talk about being uplifted and supported, so this is a tribute song to someone who provided strength and support.
With powerful vocals and an inspiring message, it’s a comforting creed.
‘Unforgettable’ – Nat King Cole
This is a classic love song that shows how a loved one never really leaves you.
The lyrics describe an unforgettable person, making this a lovely tribute to someone special. It is a song containing words from the heart.
‘I’ll Be Missing You’ – Puff Daddy ft Faith Evans & 112
This song commemorates the late rapper Notorious BIG and speaks of profound loss. The lyrics are about missing a loved one and remembering them fondly – something everyone who has lost someone can relate to.
The message in this message is relatable; infusing the music with so much emotion makes it a powerful tribute.
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