Ultimatum: Strange Love is the Netflix sequel Ultimatum: Get Married or Move Onaired on the platform in 2022. The first season of the show featured ten women as five couples as they participated in the show to find out whether they would get married or instead break up at the end of the experiment. Vanessa Papa, who we’re talking about in this article, and Xander Boger were among the five original couples/cast members who appeared on the show, which was hosted by JoAnna Garcia Swisher.
Now keep reading as we tell you about Vanessa and her romance with Xander.
Vanessa Papa on Netflix Ultimatum: Strange Love
Not long after that Ultimatum: Strange Love Introducing the ten cast members, Vanessa Papa stood out as the most messy bachelorette to appear on the show. Somehow, she clearly proved that she was the most dramatic actress.
After Vanessa’s boyfriend Xander proposes to her, they decide to go on the Netflix show to test their relationship.
But, once she gets into it, Vanessa unexpectedly turns things upside down by rushing into all the potential partners. To make things as complicated as possible, she targets both Lexi and Rae as her top two choices. Lexi and Rae had just broken up to be on the show. They seem extremely uncomfortable with Vanessa pursuing both of them at the same time, often in front of each other. But, as soon as she gets started, Vanessa quickly destroys her potential romance with Lexi by saying that she isn’t ready to get too close to anyone.
Vanessa uses the pronouns she/her and Xander uses the pronouns she/her/they.
Are Vanessa Papa and Xander Boger still together?
Vanessa Papa and Xander Boger’s social media activity suggests that they have not been together since May 2023. Not only do they not follow each other on Instagram or seem to maintain contact in any way, but one of them even created a new profile not long ago.
Also, while Vanessa returned to Los Angeles, California from Hawaii around 2022, Vanessa went back to work as a physical therapist based in Kailua-Kona, Hawaii. So it seems this experiment didn’t work for them.
On the show, Vanessa is seen as the recipient of Xander’s ultimatum. Unlike Xander, who is ready to settle down, she seems to fear losing her freedom through marriage. However, on the show, it is also revealed that she has never been away from Xander for more than three days since their relationship began four years ago. She has also stated on more than one occasion that while she loves Xander, she never envisioned a long-term relationship. She doesn’t seem to be looking for permanence. Unlike marriage, which often seems stable, she says, she wants more freedom.
Vanessa Papa’s age
Vanessa Papa was born in 1991. So she turned 31 in 2022.
Vanessa Papa Jobs
Until around August 2022, Vanessa Papa taught English as a Second Language online, which she said allowed her to work from home and travel frequently.
For a while, Vanessa also seemed to have a bit of a reputation as a “sustainability influencer.” As one, she even spoke to PHOTOBOOK magazine about living responsibly and reducing her environmental impact in 2019.
How tall is Vanessa Papa?
The beautiful Vanessa is just under 5’5″ and occasionally on Wednesdays she also wears her gorgeous blonde wig.
Vanessa Papa’s Family
Vanessa Papa frequently visits her family in New Jersey. However, we still don’t know who these people are among her people.
This time, however, she wrote on her social media post about how much she looks like her mother. “Sometimes I take a picture and realize how much I look like my mother. It’s one of my favorite things,” she wrote next to an old black and white portrait of her mother. Vanessa does look like her mother, you can tell. They even have the same mole, or as they say, a “beauty mole” in the exact same spot above their lips.
Vanessa Papa Education
Vanessa Papa holds a Bachelor of Science in Marketing, Hospitality and Tourism Management from Appalachian State University. She also traveled abroad to study International Business at the University of Trieste.
Related FAQs
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What is Vanessa Papa’s birthday?
Vanessa Papa’s birthday is August 28 and she is a Virgo.
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Where is Vanessa Papa from?
Vanessa is originally from New Jersey. From there, she moved to North Carolina when she was 17. However, as of 2023, she resides in Los Angeles.
Back in 2019, when she spoke to PHOTOBOOK Sustainable Fashion Magazine, she was living in Oregon. “But I travel all over the place so much that I probably won’t be here for too long,” she said at the time.
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Is Vanessa Papa on Instagram and Facebook?
Vanessa Papa can be found on Instagram but not on Facebook. As of May 25, 2023, her IG account @itsvanessapapa has 47 posts and 975 followers.
Additionally, she has garnered 9.88k subscribers on her YouTube channel @ItsVanessaPapa.